Congrats to Mitsuko and Mike! Wedding was great on Sunday, good to see old friends, and throw a few down. Check out this badass ice chiller/ sculpture for the vodka! Drinks were so good I threw up on my bed, the sheets, the blanket, the bedspring skirt, the carpet, Sho’s blanket, my shirt, my boxers and all over my thigh Monday morning. Awesome man!

Ok so I cheated. Life, work, Sho has kept me busy. So I am jamming 6 days into one post to get caught up. Where do I start Sho during this time passed his 1 month anniversary since joining the “human race”. Since then there were a few days that were utter hell, days when Sho would be yelling, Ray would be yelling at me and me yelling at her, it was like a yelling contest. When Sho is in a bad mood we are usually thrust into a bad mood as well. What can one do when a baby just cries for hours on end? You try this then that, burp him, feed him, clean him, sleep him, if all else fails bride him? He doesn’t even know he is alive. I used to think people were crazy when they had babies and then seperate. It never made sense to me, but going through this I have a much better understanding of how demanding and stressful parenting can be especially for mothers. I think through all of this it’s important to sit back and take the experience, the good and the bad and take it for face value and perhaps don’t take things too personally. More importantly don’t forget why you had the kid in the first place. I guess for me I am learning a lot, I do feel isolated at times but sometimes you have to be a team player until things return and if they don’t then you must adjust (for the greater good). After all though I feel like I am a kid, there is actually a new kid on the block. But life is still good, good or bad it’s all great experiences that I will cherish. Sho is growing so fast.